"Oh, sure, so instead of trusting people you actively piss them off by doing alarming things to them without any explanation at all! That'll get you not-murdered, won't it, that's perfectly safe, no way that could possibly go wrong. Nevermind any sort of history that may or may not adversely affect their reaction, nevermind how evil or not they may or may not be, nevermind any knowledge of how that could have gone with whatever weird shit has us talking to each other in a bar that's separate from my universe! Nevermind if it could have tripped a trap, exploded all of us, nevermind if I could have turned out to be allergic to it for bizarre magic reasons, nevermind that it was not your fucking call to make in the first place, because being a bit evasive is not actively threatening you! Whereas!"

She breaks out the air quotes. "'It's not privacy invading except evil or no' oh, I'm sorry, do you know my life situation, do you understand that certain questions getting magical affirmatives could literally get me killed? No? Then don't! fucking! assume!"